Conversations,  
a day of grieving,  
1/22/94 four
i was ten 
when my grandfather died
we visited him the week before 
and his last words to me 
were, 
you’re the most beautiful girl 
in the world 
i went to the funeral 
his eyes closed 
dressed in a suit 
hands folded 
he never wore a suit 
and everyone 
brothers, sisters, 
cousins, uncles 
talked about past weddings 
other times together 
i wanted to tell them 
to pay him some respect 
don’t laugh 
don’t be happy 
he’s in that coffin 
up there 
in the front of the room 
he’s dead 
they’re going to bury him tomorrow 
but this is how things were 
and i was only ten 
  
  
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