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live at Beach Poets   07/13/08 
  
 
 
 
   07/13/08, Beach Poets   
Watch the entire performance video , which contains this poem 
(25:19), from the Internet Archive  
  
 
 
 
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11/06/10 from the TV camera in Lake Villa’s Swing State  , live in her “Visual Nonsense” show Sexism and other stories  
  
 
 
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1:52, 11/06/10 in Lake Villa at Swing State  , in Sexism and other stories  
  
 
 
See the full show of Kuypers reading from the TV monitor  in the “Sexism and other stories  ” show , live in Lake Villa’s “Visual Nonsense” 10/20/011/06/10 with this poem at Swing State  
 
 
See the full show of Janet Kuypers  reading her poetry in the “Sexism and other stories  ” show , live in Lake Villa 11/06/10 with this writing at Swing State  (this was filmed from the TV camera; posted on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Instagram , and Tumblr ).  #janetkuypers  #janetkuyperspoetry  #janetkuyperspoetryshow  
 
 
 
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read live 10/11/11 at the Caf#233;  in her mini-feature of Contents Under Pressure  book poems  
  
 
 
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of the her mini-feature INCLUDING THIS POEM  (with background base by John) live 10/11/11 at the Caf#233;   
  
 
 
See YouTube   video of Janet Kuypers  reading her poem a Man Calls a Woman   live  6/12/13   as the intro to the open mic the Caf#233; Gallery  in Chicago (Canon) 
  
 
 
See YouTube   video of Janet Kuypers  reading her poem a Man Calls a Woman   live  6/12/13   as the intro to the open mic the Caf#233; Gallery  in Chicago (Sony) 
  
 
 
 
See YouTube   video 
of Kuypers hosting the open mic 6/12/13   at Gallery Cabaret’s the Caf#233; Gallery   in Chicago, including her reading this and  other poems & prose! 
  
 
See YouTube  video of Janet Kuypers  in her 6/3/17 poetry show “Meant to do Big Things ” at  June is a Woman!  in Austin’s the Bahá’í Faith Center , with her poems 
“you were meant  ”, 
“Athena  ”, 
“a man calls a woman  ”, 
“cover  ”, 
“Diane Talking About her Trip to Mexico City  ”, 
and “Echo in my Mind  ”, all to audio of her playing electric bass with a bow while playing an acoustic guitar with a bow (from a Panasonic Lumix camera; on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Pinterest , Instagram , and Tumblr ).  #janetkuyperspoetryshow  
  
 
See YouTube  video of Janet Kuypers  in her 6/3/17 poetry show “Meant to do Big Things ” at  June is a Woman!  in Austin’s the Bahá’í Faith Center , with her poems 
“you were meant  ”, 
“Athena  ”, 
“a man calls a woman  ”, 
“cover  ”, 
“Diane Talking About her Trip to Mexico City  ”, 
and “Echo in my Mind  ”, all while playing an acoustic guitar with a bow (this video was filmed from a Sony camera; posted on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Pinterest , Instagram , and Tumblr ).  #janetkuypers  #janetkuyperspoetryshow  
 
Download all of the poems from the free chapbook  
“Meant to do Big Things  ”  
 
 
of the poems she performed in her 6/3/17 “Meant to do Big Things  ” poetry feature/show, including
“you were meant  ”, 
“Athena  ”, 
“a man calls a woman  ”, 
“cover  ”, 
“Diane Talking About her Trip to Mexico City  , 
“Echo in my Mind  ”, 
and the bonus poem “My brain was (2017 Streamline)  ”. 
  
 
Wnjoy this YouTube  video of Janet Kuypers  at her 1/3/18 “Community Poetry @ Half Price Books ” Austin feature reading, reading her “Meant to do  Big Things  ” poems 
“Athena  ”, 
“a man calls a woman  ”, 
“Diane Talking About her Trip to Mexico City  ”, 
“cover  ”, 
& “Echo in my Mind  ” from the cc&d  1/18  book “the End of the World  ” to people live (this video was filmed from a Panasonic Lumix T56 camera; shared in 2021 on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Pinterest , Instagram , & Tumblr ; & in 2024 on Facebook , Twitter , Link ed in , Pinterest , Instagram , & Tumblr ). #janetkuyperspoetry  #janetkuypers  #janetkuypersbookreading  
  
 
 
 
See YouTube  video of Janet Kuypers  at her 1/3/18 “Community Poetry @ Half Price Books ” Austin feature reading, reading her “Meant to do  Big Things  ” poems 
“Athena  ”, 
“a man calls a woman  ”, 
“Diane Talking About her Trip to Mexico City  ”, 
“cover  ”, 
& “Echo in my Mind  ” from the cc&d  1/18  book “the End of the World  ” to people live (L56Th). 
  
 
Enjoy this YouTube   video of Janet Kuypers  reading her poems  “A Man Calls a Woman  ”, “In their Homes or In the Streets  ”, “Middle-Class Husbands and Fathers  ”, “Most Accurate Metaphors  ”, “the Measuring Scale  ”, “Content with Inferior Men  ”, and “I’m Thinking About Myself Too Much  ”  (of poems with Farsi translations) from the CyberWit.net  Janet Kuypers  poetry book (on women’s issues during women’s history month) “Shattering the  Glass Ceiling ” 4/6/22 on the 1st Wednesday of the month from 1:00-3:00 PM CST during the usual time for and in honor of the “Community Poetry” reading (this video was filmed from a Panasonic Lumix 2500 camera; on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Pinterest , Instagram , and Tumblr ).  #janetkuypers  #janetkuyperspoetry  #janetkuypersbookreading  
  
 
Enjoy this Facebook live video stream   of Janet Kuypers  reading her poems  “A Man Calls a Woman  ”, “In their Homes or In the Streets  ”, “Middle-Class Husbands and Fathers  ”, “Most Accurate Metaphors  ”, “the Measuring Scale  ”, “Content with Inferior Men  ”, and “I’m Thinking About Myself Too Much  ” (of poems with Farsi translations) from the CyberWit.net  Janet Kuypers  poetry book (on women’s issues during women’s history month) “Shattering the  Glass Ceiling ” 4/6/22 on the 1st Wednesday of the month from 1:00-3:00 PM CST during the usual time for and in honor of the “Community Poetry” reading (filmed and streamed live from a Samsung S9 camera with a Lava Lamp filter; posted on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Instagram , and Tumblr ). #janetkuyperspoetry  #janetkuypersbookreading  #janetkuypers  
  
 
Enjoy this YouTube   video of Janet Kuypers   reading her poem “a man calls a woman  ” from the CyberWit.net  Janet Kuypers  poetry book (on women’s issues, released during women’s history month) “Shattering the  Glass Ceiling ”, plus her new poems “After All We’ve Accomplished  ” and “Flags at Half-Mast  ” as the ending poem for her “Poetic License global open mic 7/3/22 ” she hosted through a Zoom meeting and a Facebook event page  (video filmed from a Panasonic Lumix 2500 camera; on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Pinterest , Instagram , and Tumblr ). #janetkuypers  #janetkuyperspoem  #janetkuypersbookreading  #janetkuypersfeminism   #janetkuypersequalityforwomen  #janetkuypersshatteringtheglassceiling  #janetkuyperswomensrights  #janetkuyperspoeticlicense  
  
 
Enjoy this Facebook live video stream   of Janet Kuypers  reading her poem “a man calls a woman  ”  from the CyberWit.net  Janet Kuypers  poetry book  (on women’s issues, released during women’s history month)  “Shattering the  Glass Ceiling ”,  plus her new poems  “After All We’ve Accomplished  ” and “Flags at Half-Mast  ”  as the ending poem for her “Poetic License global open mic 7/3/22 ” she hosted through a Zoom meeting and a Facebook event page  (filmed & streamed from a Samsung S9 camera with an Old b&w Film filter; on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Instagram , and Tumblr ). #janetkuypers  #janetkuyperspoem  #janetkuypersbookreading  #janetkuypersfeminism  #shatteringtheglassceiling  #janetkuyperswomensrights  #janetkuypersequalityforwomen  #janetkuypersshatteringtheglassceiling  #janetkuyperspoeticlicense  
  
 
Enjoy this YouTube   video of Janet Kuypers   reading her poem “a man calls a woman  ” from the CyberWit.net  Janet Kuypers  poetry book (on women’s issues, released during women’s history month) “Shattering the  Glass Ceiling ” during her last reading at her “Poetic License global open mic 7/3/22 ” she hosted through a Zoom meeting and a Facebook event page  (video from a Panasonic Lumix T56 camera w/ a hue Cycling filter; on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Pinterest , Instagram , and Tumblr ). #janetkuypers  #janetkuyperspoem  #janetkuypersbookreading  #janetkuypersfeminism  #janetkuypersshatteringtheglassceiling  #janetkuyperswomensrights  #janetkuypersequalityforwomen  #janetkuyperspoeticlicense  
  
 
Enjoy this YouTube   video of Janet Kuypers   reading her poem “a man calls a woman  ” from the CyberWit.net  Janet Kuypers  poetry book (on women’s issues, released during women’s history month) “Shattering the  Glass Ceiling ” during her last reading at her “Poetic License global open mic 7/3/22 ” she hosted through a Zoom meeting and a Facebook event page  (video filmed from a Panasonic Lumix T56 camera; on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Pinterest , Instagram , and Tumblr ). #janetkuypers  #janetkuyperspoem  #janetkuypersbookreading  #janetkuypersfeminism   #janetkuypersequalityforwomen  #janetkuypersshatteringtheglassceiling  #janetkuyperswomensrights  #janetkuyperspoeticlicense  
  
 
Enjoy this Facebook live video stream   of Janet Kuypers   reading her poems “Eye now Blotchy and Gray (dreams 2/16/22)  ”, “Finally Treated Fairly  ”, “Too Far (2020 edit)  ”, “A Man Calls A Woman  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem  ), “In Their homes or In The Streets  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem  ), “the Men at the Construction Site  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem  ), “the Measuring Scale  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem  ), “Most Accurate Metaphors  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem  ), and “I’m Thinking About Myself Too Much  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem ) from the Down in the Dirt  8/22 v198  book “My Name is Equality  ” on 8/3/22 on the 1st Wednesday of the month (1:00-3:00 PM CST) in honor of ‘Community Poetry’ (Samsung S9 camera; posted on Twitter , Linkedin , Instagram , and Tumblr ). #janetkuyperspoetry  #janetkuypersequalityforwomen  #janetkuypersfeminism  #janetkuyperswomensrights  #janetkuypers  #janetkuypersbookreading   
  
 
Enjoy this YouTube   video of Janet Kuypers   reading her poems “Eye now Blotchy and Gray (dreams 2/16/22)  ”, “Finally Treated Fairly  ”, “Too Far (2020 edit)  ”, “A Man Calls A Woman  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem  ), “In Their homes or In The Streets  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem  ), “the Men at the Construction Site  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem  ), “the Measuring Scale  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem  ), “Most Accurate Metaphors  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem  ), and “I’m Thinking About Myself Too Much  ” (+ showing a Farsi translation of the poem ) from the Down in the Dirt  8/22 v198  book “My Name is Equality  ” on 8/3/22 on the 1st Wednesday of the month (1:00-3:00 PM CST) in honor of ‘Community Poetry’ (this video was filmed from a Panasonic Lumix 2500 camera; posted on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Pinterest , Instagram , and Tumblr ).  #janetkuypersequalityforwomen  #janetkuypersfeminism  #janetkuyperswomensrights  #janetkuypers  #janetkuyperspoetry  #janetkuypersbookreading   
  
 
Enjoy this YouTube   video of Janet Kuypers   reading her poems “A Man Calls A Woman  ” (+ showing the + Farsi translation of the poem ), “In Their homes or In The Streets  ” (+ showing the Farsi translation of the poem ), and “the Men at the Construction Site  ” (+ showing the Farsi translation of the poem ) from the Down in the Dirt  5-8/22 issue collection book “The Final  Frontier  ” (that also appears in the CyberWit.net  Janet Kuypers  poetry book “Shattering the  Glass Ceiling ”) on 12/7/22, the 1st Wednesday of the month in honor of ‘Community Poetry’ (filmed from a Panasonic Lumix 2500 camera; on Facebook , Twitter , Linkedin , Pinterest , Instagram , and Tumblr ).   
 
This YouTube   video  was also filmed from a Samsung S9 camera; posted on Facebook , Twitter , Linked in , Pinterest , Instagram , and Tumblr ). #janetkuypers  #janetkuypersbookreading  #janetkuypersequalityforwomen  #janetkuyperswomensrights  #janetkuypersshatteringtheglassceiling  #janetkuyperspoetry   
  
a man calls a woman 
every time a man calls a woman a “bitch” 
the threat of rape lies behind his hostility 
every time a man calls a woman a “witch” 
he reminds her of the slaughter of millions  
whose independence and medical  
knowledge threatened male dominance 
every time a man makes a joke about rape  
or wife-beating he issues a warning to women 
                                        Bob Lamm, 1976
 
every time a man calls a woman a “babe” 
he tells her he thinks of her as a child 
every time a man calls a woman a “fox” 
he tells her she is to be treated like an animal 
every time a man calls a woman a “honey” 
he tells her she is meant to be consumed 
every time a man calls a woman a “doll” 
he tells her she is something to be played with 
every time a man calls a woman a “bag” 
he tells her she is something to be used 
every time a man calls a woman a “slit” 
he tells her she’s a body part, not whole 
every time a man calls a woman a “screw” 
all he’s saying is what he’d do to her 
every time a man calls a woman a “girl” 
he tells her she can’t think like an adult 
every time a man calls a woman a “whore” 
he tells her she is wrong for having sex 
every time a man calls a woman a “lay” 
he tells her she is no good on her feet 
every time a man calls a woman anything 
less than woman he tells her who’s the boss 
so yes, we all know who the boss is, boys 
you’ve done such a good job of telling us
 
Copyright Janet Kuypers. 
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